(Continued as part of Love Reflections series based on a prompt. I recommend starting with Part I.)
I’m just as surprised as you, this is what came up. How is it easy? I’m asking too. Easy because it is our natural inheritance. Easy because at the end of the day, Love just is. It has no agenda; it gives freely and is freedom. There is no conflict because love just is. No matter how much we may try; we can’t make love or God something it is not.
There is no striving, or anxious energy toward this love. As Jesus said on the Sermon on the Mount, “Take no thought”, let go of my attachment to my ideas of love or to my need to “fix” my judgements, my grievances, my guilt, my self-hatred and let God be God and let love escape. I need do nothing, but go deep within and seek Truth, seek ye first the kingdom of God. First, not after I fix this or that in my life, but first.
Why do we seem to make it so hard? As I finished typing this question, the Go-Go’s song “Head Over Heels”, came on and it pretty much sums it up. Our world is head over heels-out of control, and we have forgotten who we are.
We make love hard when we surround it with everything else, grievances, judgment etc. And just like when we’re trying to fix the world, we can get caught in the trap that we have to do something, try harder to love, etc. We are a society of control freaks, but there is no controlling or forcing our way to this love.
The good news is that no matter how off track we get and feel like we’re on the crazy train, we can always get back on track and jump on the peace and love trains.
Ben Phipps © 2024
Recommended songs that came up during this reflection: “Head over Heels” by the Go-Go’s, Crazy Train by Ozzy Osbourne, Peace Train by Yusuf/Cat Stevens and Love Train by the O’Jays.
Next reflection: Resistance to Love